Maybe that is because I'm having more and more fun with you. Happy Anniversary! I am glad that you let me be myself. I don't know that I could do that with anyone else without them thinking I am crazy.
Maybe I am a little crazy. Today we celebrate your most difficult accomplishment, staying married to me all these years. You're the champagne to my chocolate. Each year with you is better than the last. I love you for not only who you are, but for who I am when I am with you. For all these years you have been my first thought in the morning and my last thought at night. Happy Anniversary, to my partner, my best friend Every year with you is sweeter than the last.
Cupid's aim is still pretty good. I don't know how you make my heart flutter and turn my stomach to butterflies. But I'm sure glad I'm lucky enough to have you. I really messed up and wish I could go back and fix it. I am truly sorry. I made a decision out of poor judgment, and I wish I could go back and change my decision.
Please forgive me. Right now is one of those times for me. Please accept my apology. I am really sorry. Can we discuss over coffee? Get Well I am sorry you are not feeling well. I am praying for you to have a complete and quick recovery. Get well soon, so I can come over and bother you. I was starting to think that you are invincible. It's good to know that you are human after all.
Looking forward to you getting back to your invincible self. Get well soon superman. If I told you to 'Get Well Soon,' it wouldn't be soon enough. Get Well Now. You must have forgotten to eat your apple. Now you have to see the doctor. Get well soon.
I'm writing you a prescription to get better. Don't forget to take your medicine. I am wishing you good cheer and a quick recovery! Sending you healing thoughts and a little sunshine to brighten your day. Hurry back we all miss you. When the world says, "Give up," Hope whispers, "Try it one more time. Mistakes are doorways to discovery. Every time you see these blooms, remember someone is thinking of you. It takes both rain and sunshine to make a rainbow. If you can laugh at it, you can live with it.
The pure joy of the unexpected can be a source of wonder to me! For the best reason of all--none! I hope you're my friend forever because that's how long I'm gonna need you! May your day be as wonderful as you are. Housewarming Relax and enjoy your wonderful new home. May you create countless memories in your new home. Hope your new house becomes a home. I wonder if she realized she she missed your birthday? She must. I usually remember.
I just wonder if these people who flip out had people in childhood who forgot their birthdays and forgot other things, and the act triggers some sort of really big feelings of insecurity or lack of feeling loved.
Like being forgotten waiting on a scary corner as a kid and the sun is going down. The older a person gets the more a birthday is not a big deal. You are just grateful you woke up that morning and was able to get out of bed.
I find birthdays to be self obsessive. I am glad when no one notices, including me. The only thing that is different about my birthday is I make sure I go to the dentist. I have made that a tradition among most of my friends. I admit to having a chip on my shoulder about my birthday. It is Jan 2, which was always the day we went back to work or school after the holidays. People were sick of celebrating so my birthday was always ho hum.
Both my mother and brother had Christmastime birthdays, marinelife. Trying to spend twice as much when money is shortest of the year. Non-Christmas paper and cards when everything is holiday. At least today you stand to get a nice gift because of the post-Christmas sales. In hindsight, I just wanted to please my mom.
My husband goes along with all sorts of things I want to do during that month. Last weekend we went kayaking for the first time. Even the weekend in the middle of the month is fine.
I go shopping after the crowds are done and treat myself to some new things. I buy a couple things for my husband for my borthday too sometimes. Kind of my month to list all my wants and fun things and feel entitled. I do like all the phone calls I get on my actual birthday usually around 5 or 6 and the texts another 3 or 4 and all the facebook posts probably over 50, but I barely know some of them.
I can understand why getting birthday gifts wrapped in Christmas paper would be disappointing. Chanukah was more of the disappointing day s compared to Christmas.
Also, Chanukah quickly became a money holiday as I got older, not so much a girft wrapped present holiday. We did go back to school on my birthday quite often, so I know how that feels. My mom stopped doing birthday parties after age 8, so I never perceived my lack of parties and multiple gifts as a Christmas thing, but rather my mom not wanting to bother thing.
As I got older I realized my friends had trouble remembering my birthday because of the timing. The birthday is known all year long. I am not talking about the sweet thing you did for your sibling, I mean parents. Parents have no excuse. Again he got upset. One time we were on the road, traveling to his hometown. He was on business, I was just tagging along. Got a call from my son, wishing me happy birthday.
I thanked him. Pretty sure it is, unless my folks lied to me! I used to give him small presents on our anniversary, but he never acknowledged it back in any way so I quit doing that too. I think why not do something big for his birthday? Maybe then he will try to do better for yours. I understand why you stopped, but it might be worth a try once more after what I assume is many years. Or, if you want something for your birthday just go ahead and bring up youself that it is approaching.
And I have. I would not be so calm about that level of thoughtlessness if it was my husband. One year, I wrote it on the day after. Oh fuck, that was bad. Last year? I wanted to go to the Japanese Steak House for my birthday.
No one asked. We ate Mexican…again. I probably would just lower my expectations too. In the majority of the time, our reaction to this depends upon the level of bond that we share with the person who forgot our birthday. If they are extremely close to us, of course, we are going to feel bad. But, here we need to take a pause and chill, as we have grown up now. Everyone has a hectic schedule to follow in their day-to-day life due to which, at times, we forget the dates of some important events in our lives.
Therefore, instead of overthinking about it, we must take it easy and get along to a party with those people as developing differences, for this reason, is not what sensible humans do. The question sounds stupid and irrational but it is necessary to get this question answered for all those who think the same. Birthdays are meant to celebrate with each other, leaving behind the feeling of rage. There should not be any relatedness between the two occurrences. Instead, you must try planning in advance that how are you going to surprise them on their birthday and how are you going to make their birthday more special with your presence.
Remember, life is too short to hold grudges.
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